My picture online was taken 2 years ago, Since then I have lost weight and my hair is Dark Auburn, I dont look anything like my picture any more!!

Im a thick woman in my late 50's who has been dating/married/widow to Black Gentleman since the age of 15. My last hubby died in Iraq in 2004 and wanted his ashes placed on Pikes Peak, so I sold my home in Florida and bought a home in Aurora, Colorado(close to my daughter and grandson) and every anniversary I put alittle bit of his ashes on the Peak. We were only married 6 months before he got killed. Anyhow its been 7 years now and I feel that its time to find me another Man to occupy the rest of my life with. Alittle about me, Im 5'8" tall, I have dark auburn hair and green sparkling eyes. My father was Black, my mother was White and I came out with kinky hair and green eyes and ivory skin. But now my hair is as straight as can be, I wear it short like Halle Berry, and Im a very independent person. I like movies, dining in, dining out, art shows, museums, zoo's, slot machines, traveling, cuddling and kisses, lots of conversation. I am retired and I try to enjoy life to its fullest, but rather have a companion to spend the rest of my life with.